Apparently our brain is geared towards beauty. It’s in our genes. Scientists tell us that beauty actually reflects health and strong genes. Our instincts are focused towards the survival of our species through reproduction, and so the cult of beauty was born. When you are beautiful outwards, you are given such and advantage in life. From a spiritual point of view it does not make sense. But here we are. We live in a society where beautiful people get better grades for doing the same thing as their less beautiful counterparts. They get better paid. We assume their honesty. Mothers naturally give more attention to attractive babies. And the list goes on. Even juries are less likely to find attractive people guilty.
The brain is a beauty detector. We get a hit of dopamine by looking at a beautiful person. Is that why?
Outer beauty is not fair, but inner beauty can be worked on. It’s an accomplishment.
In this context, I thought it even the more important to talk about inner beauty. I am being a bit selfish here, because it serves me to do that. It helps with my self worth because I don’t see myself beautiful, but I know that having pursued self development for the best part of thirty years, I would probably win a contest a inner beauty.
Despite all that, I have seen women enter a room and command it, despite not being the prettiest in the room.
How do we cultivate that inner beauty. Inner beauty is the sum of good things that can be found in a person.
It stems from confidence, love, honesty, kindness, compassion, integrity, wisdom and loyalty. I talked about each of this aspects in more depth in the podcast episode. To listen to it click here.